I disagree with your broad statement that SQL in general isn’t tricky to make more performant if you know what you’re doing. Worked with DBAs who have decades of experience who have gotten great help in streamlining queries and schemas from AI tools in the last couple of years.

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For an actual NAS solution, meaning your primary goal is storage, then Rockstor, OpenMediaVault, and TrueNAS are the big open source ones I know of. I believe they can all do ZFS and RAID these days

If you’re looking for a system to host self hosted apps, that can also do ZFS storage, check out Incus Containers on a playing Ubuntu or Debian install, and use LXConsole for the UI side.

I use Picsur. It’s very similar. I have liked it quite a bit.

RustDesk is great, you can run the server on your own hardware, and set up the clients for unattended access. No need for a VPN, as long as all clients on both ends can find your server.

Sorry for the delayed reply. Haven’t really played Minecraft, so can’t say, but I’ll say I run my own server and the family and I play for while til we get to a point we’ve done what we want, and I then go in and change the world sees and we get a new world and start all over.

I’ll give a vote for Zulip. It’s come a long way over the years, and if you really look at the way they’ve built it, it’s so much better than most options as there is a built in concept of context in threaded conversation.

“He has no regrets whatsoever”, is this a quote from the employee, or from Trump about being a pedophilic predator?

Veloren has been a blast on my family’s self hosted system.

Yes, mistyped “replication” and got autocorrected to “recognition”. Sorry, didn’t notice at the time.

Just my opinion and experience. Setup a couple of cheap VPS instances, and setup recognition, one primary, one secondary.

Purelynail has been awesome.

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I agree with a lot of the folks here. I don’t think it’s gate-kept. It’s just part of self hosting. I have a YouTube channel dedicated to teaching people about self josting, open source, and how to get it all running. There are great projects out there that provide incredibly powerful UIs, TrueNAS, OpenMediaVault, Unraid, Proxmox, NextCloud, HomeAssistant, NetBird, Pangolin, NGinX Proxy Manager, Portainer, and so many more. All designed to make self hosting easier and safer. I know 8 or 10 other creators who also do self hosting and how to’s. It does require learning, time, and dedication. As does anything worth while.