

The problem with ‘making your own instance’ is, how little of active people there are to sustain such instances.
You literally only need one person to make an instance: you.
You make it sound like we’re flourishing with millions of active users when we’re realistically seeing only five digit thousands and that’s being generous.
And that’s a problem? Personally, I want to see the Fediverse grow sustainably.
It’s not that simple.
No it actually is that simple to make an instance just for yourself. Actually, the challenge comes about when you grow, because then you have to moderate other users.














Sounds like you need to either find or make the community you want to see. Which in general, you can do (but some instances don’t let you make new communities I think), although it’s important to make the community on an instance whose policies are amenable to you.
And then if your community is worth going to, people will come.