What’s wrong with getting married for money? As long as your upfront about it and the other person is ok with it then what’s the problem?
I really want to get married. It’s my plan to marry someone who is rich and become a stay at home wife. I don’t have much going for me and it’s the only way I can think of to get rich and not work at Burger King forever.
I’m just saying, rich men can pick and choose from gorgeous women. Being physically attractive isn’t enough, those dynamics stop working when serious money and/or status is involved. They will choose women who have more going on for them than that, provided they are even okay with a transactional relationship. Rich marries rich.
And then, if you get “in” so to say, you definitely should expect to be reduced to the transactional nature of the relationship. He pays for everything, so you are expected to fulfill the role of a fuckmaid. Once you are no longer as attractive as the other 20somethings looking to land a rich husband he will likely cheat on you and/or just divorce you. With a prenup.
Nothing. As long as both parties understand and accept that. Like they did in victorian times and before. Marriage of convenience it was called. And it was understood as such and accepted. It wasnt ideal, but people accepted it.
Marriage is an artificial social concept. It is not a “natural thing”. It serves a purpose. sometimes it is money.
When you’re a purchase and not a partner you will be treated like one.
Like what? Cherished, valued and looked after?
good tradwife bot
Because often that type of relationship is highly abusive and the power structure is horribly lopsided. Inherently there is nothing wrong with money being a priority in a relationship, but in my experience the people who set out with that goal often end up very unhappy because a relationship based on money becomes transactional in its every nature.
The “good” partners wont be interested in a partner who is just there for money, so they wont be interested in you.
You do you, but i dont know any happy gold diggers, or people with a sugar partner with the exception of a single couple, and in that case the husband had a high paying job but his wife’s income was 10x his so he was not working because they needed the money so they decided he should be a state at home parent. He sees his job as being eye candy for her, he takes care of all kid related things, cleans the house every day, and then spends 2-4hr a day at the gym so he is in peak physical form for her.
